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Today's post is inspired by a post posted by a dear friend of mine in her blog entitled Tentang Sesuatu . ( Nabilah, i hope you don't mind me linking it here in my page )
Today's post is inspired by a post posted by a dear friend of mine in her blog entitled Tentang Sesuatu . ( Nabilah, i hope you don't mind me linking it here in my page )
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Everyone...or shall I say almost anyone in this world, are always looking for this thing called 'LOVE'. Yes, what is love you guys? Honestly, I am still trying to understand this word LOVE.
When I was 4 years old, during my first train ride back to Johor. I cried on the train, no body know what is the cause, my Ummi give me some milk and hug me to sleep while my Ayah told me a story. LOVE
When I was 10 years old, I was transferred to a new class where everybody refused to be my friend. And I miss my old friends from my previous class so much that I refused to do any homework so that I'll be transferred back. One day, a sweet little girl came to me and say 'Can I be your friend?'. That is when I learn to have a best friend. LOVE
When I was 17 years old, my Atuk died. Suddenly, I start to missed his presence and all of the memories when he was with me keep on flooding back and put me to tears. LOVE
Till now...I have received a lot of love from my family and friends. But today, I am not gonna talk about LOVE that u got from your family and your caring friends or even the eternal love that you got from ALLAH swt. Today, I am gonna talk about the LOVE that we all try to find in our life, that one person that you wanna call THE ONE. A person that will be there to hold our hands while time draws wrinkles onto our skin and our birthday cake began to need more of that big candles. Yes, I'm talking bout that kind of LOVE.
When I was 10 years old, I was transferred to a new class where everybody refused to be my friend. And I miss my old friends from my previous class so much that I refused to do any homework so that I'll be transferred back. One day, a sweet little girl came to me and say 'Can I be your friend?'. That is when I learn to have a best friend. LOVE
When I was 17 years old, my Atuk died. Suddenly, I start to missed his presence and all of the memories when he was with me keep on flooding back and put me to tears. LOVE
Till now...I have received a lot of love from my family and friends. But today, I am not gonna talk about LOVE that u got from your family and your caring friends or even the eternal love that you got from ALLAH swt. Today, I am gonna talk about the LOVE that we all try to find in our life, that one person that you wanna call THE ONE. A person that will be there to hold our hands while time draws wrinkles onto our skin and our birthday cake began to need more of that big candles. Yes, I'm talking bout that kind of LOVE.
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1.How to find the perfect guy?
I often hear these quotes when it comes to choosing the right person:
"Choose someone who love you, and stop chasing those who don't"
"When you want to fall in love, find somebody who will be willing to catch you"
2. How do you know if that person is the one?
Well, I don't think anybody can answer that unless those who really had find the one, because we will never know. Happy couples...broke up, happily married people...divorce.
Because, we are only human. To find somebody perfect, we ourselves are not perfect. Find somebody who can accept you the way you are, love you for who you are. Because loving somebody is not about finding perfections, it is about accepting and loving the imperfections.
3. How do you know it is true love?
Taken from A walk To Remember..
To those who have found that someone, congratulations. To those who haven't...stop chasing those who don't love you. Start giving chances to those who does. And always have faith that one day, you will find that true love...
p/s M, Congratulations on the happy news!!! I'll try to make it to your engagement =)
"When you want to fall in love, find somebody who will be willing to catch you"
I think the major flawed in women is that, we like to fix somebody. When we find somebody who is always seems to be emotionally retarded with women, we want to be the one who makes him have feelings and emotions. When we find a bad guy, we want to be the one who make him nice. When we find a Casanova, we want to be the one who make him be a one women guy. So we go around chasing all of the dysfunctional bad guys that are not really into us who will end up breaking our hearts while there's so many other perfectly functional guys out there who are begging for us to love them. LOVE is not about finding someone who need to be fixed, it is about finding someone who love you back.
"If a guy LOVE a girl, he'll make it happen....If not, HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!!!"
2. How do you know if that person is the one?
Well, I don't think anybody can answer that unless those who really had find the one, because we will never know. Happy couples...broke up, happily married people...divorce.
"...find a life partner who is beautifully imperfect to you."
Because, we are only human. To find somebody perfect, we ourselves are not perfect. Find somebody who can accept you the way you are, love you for who you are. Because loving somebody is not about finding perfections, it is about accepting and loving the imperfections.
3. How do you know it is true love?
Taken from A walk To Remember..
"Love is always special...and kind... it is never jealous Love is never boastful..or conceded. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take advance...it is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people sadness ...but delights in the truth. It is always ready to excuse..to trust, to hope, and to endure... to whatever comes..."
To those who have found that someone, congratulations. To those who haven't...stop chasing those who don't love you. Start giving chances to those who does. And always have faith that one day, you will find that true love...
p/s M, Congratulations on the happy news!!! I'll try to make it to your engagement =)
