U need to know your priority in life, that is what my parents thought me. While buying things or doing things, you must always weigh the benefit, the need and desire. If that thing you could do it again next time, get it next time..or can be associated to 'NEXT TIME" in anyway it is clearly not a thing that you should prioritize. What's important... FAMILY. Yeah, family always come first. Then, close friends : best friends, people that matters.Organize yourself, time is limited....so i heard. When you PRIORITIZE, meaning you put it forward...no matter what happen, what comes, what people say...you know, that thing comes first no matter what. Like let say, a person important to you have this one in a life time event coming, you make time, especially if that person already give u a heads up a month before. Or let say you wanna have fun, but your house need a serious spring cleaning...you clean your house first, then go and have fun. Its not wrong at all...every body need a happy time, endorphin keeps you mentally healthy. When a friend comes telling you stuff about ur bestie, you ask your bestie first what really happen.....instead of jumping into conclusions. When your bestfriend is having a rough time, and you are out having fun with ur buddies, it wouldnt hurt just to hear ur bestie out for awhile instead of making ur bestie wait and solve the problem on her/his own. Or let say you are short of money, weighing between buying things for your love one that you know very important for her/him right now or your own need to spend it on your own leisure.....put your own need behind, we can postponed leisure for later. You see, the people who are easily hurt are the ones who loves you the most. Sadly, these people are the ones we often took for granted when they are the ones who really deserved your extra attention. Doesn't matter whether you are a parent, a child, a sibling, a grandparent, a teacher, a friend. Please... just know your priority....cause if you don't, you are in serious danger of losing trust, faith and respect of a person that is very important in your life. Though I know...we are all human, we can't runaway from mistakes.....but we often make mistakes only when we are not thinking things through...
