Relationship is not easy, its joining 2 different person with 2 different personalities, 2 different interest and priorities under one thing. Its something that both of that different people have to work on, always and forever. And it sure look easy, but its not. It takes lots of effort, give and take, sacrifices, understanding. It may be effortless at first, but as these 2 ppl grow and start to have different lives...it will get harder. Yep, obstacles will always be there. But it is up to these two people to handle it through thick and thin, good and bad times, whatever it is it can either make it or break it. I found this video and I think it is kinda interesting.
I always find that its sad when my friends broke up, listening to ppl get divorce and stuff. I always wonder... they used to be so happy, what have gone wrong? what happened? I guess some people call it fate, some people kata takde jodoh...but really, Allah swt have brought you guys together and we all know how much Allah swt don't like us cutting off people from our life, whereas a divorce. Something must have gone wrong somewhere, maybe they start being comfortable, together began to be a routine....which can be a good or a bad thing, maybe they stop trying, start taking each other for granted, maybe things began to feel less exciting. I dunno why. But whatever it is, just like everything around us, if we want it to lasts forever it need to be taken care of, nurtured, and love. Just one of my random posts. Lets us all hope and pray that Allah swt will bless everything beautiful that we have now. Amin <3
Peace ><
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